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Which minds are nearest to me and what
is my ideal work among them?
Always,
in one way or another, life puts in our path those who for some
reason are near to us. Each individual creates his own environment
according to what he is himself.
And,
if such is our dominant preoccupation, all those whom we thus meet
on our way are the very ones to whom we can be most useful.
For
one who lives constantly in the spiritual consciousness, everything
that happens to him takes on a special value and all is conducive
to his progressive evolution. It will always be beneficial for him
to observe his encounters, to investigate both the apparent and
the deeper reasons for them, and, in accordance with his altruistic
aspirations, he will ask himself what good he can do in each different
case. And according to his own degree of spirituality, his action
will always have a greater or lesser spiritualising effect.
If
we observe at all attentively the causes which bring us closer to
our kind, we see that these contacts occur at various levels of
depth in our being, depending on our own special mode of conscious
activity.
We
can classify these relationships into four main categories corresponding
to our four principal modes of activity: physical, vital, psychic
and mental. They may have their play in one or several of these
categories, simultaneously or successively, according to the quality
and type of the manifestation of our activity.
Physical
contact is compulsory, so to say, since it depends on the fact that
we have a physical body. It inevitably occurs with those who have
provided us with this body and with all those who are materially
dependent on them. These are the relations of kinship. There are
also relationships of proximity: neighbourhood in houses, in the
various means of transport, in the street. (I may remark here and
this remark also applies to the other three categories that this
relationship is not necessarily exclusive: this is in fact rare,
since we are seldom active on only one plane of our being; what
I mean is that the physical relationship is dominant over the other
three.)
Vital
contact occurs between impulses and desires which are identical
or liable to combine in order to complement and heighten one another.
Psychic
contact occurs between converging spiritual aspirations.
Mental
contact comes from similar or complementary mental capacities and
affinities.
Normally,
if the predominance of one category is not clearly established and
this can only happen when there is enough order in our being to
organise it in all its depth and complexity we can and should give
material help to those who are near to us for physical reasons.
With
certain exceptions, material help is the best assistance we can
give to the members of our family or to those whom we chance to
meet in the street, in trains, in ships, in buses, e.: pecuniary
help, aid in case of illness or danger.
We
should assist the sensitivity of those who are attracted to us because
they have identical tastes, artistic or otherwise, by rectifying,
balancing or canalising their sense-energies.
We
can help those who by a common aspiration for progress have been
brought into contact with us, through our example, by showing them
the path, and through our love, by smoothing the way for them.
Finally,
we must allow the light of our intelligence to shine for those who
come close to us as a result of mental affinity, so that, if possible,
we may widen their field of thought and enlighten their ideal.
These
various affinities express themselves outwardly in slight and sometimes
subtle variations in the conditions of our encounters, and because
our insight is seldom alert enough, these slight variations often
elude us.
But
to direct our action in the right way and reduce as far as possible
the causes of our wrong attitudes towards our fellowmen, we should
always investigate with the greatest care the numerous reasons for
our contacts and find the category of affinities which binds us
to them.
A
few rare beings are close to us in all four modes of existence at
the same time. These are friends in the deepest sense of the word.
It is on them that our actions can have their most integral, their
most perfectly helpful and beneficial effect.
We
should never forget that the duration of a contact between two human
lives depends on the number and depth of the states of being in
which the affinities that bind them have their play.
Only
those who commune with the eternal essence within themselves and
in all things can be eternally united.
Only
those are friends forever who have been close or distant friends
from all time in this or other worlds.
And
whether or not we meet these friends depends on the encounter we
must first experience within ourselves, in the unknown depths of
our being.
Moreover,
when this meeting occurs, our whole attitude is transformed.
When
we become one with the inner Godhead, we become one in depth with
all, and it is through Her and by Her that we must come into contact
with all beings. Then, free from all attraction and repulsion, all
likes and dislikes, we are close to what is close to Her and far
from what is far from Her.
Thus
we learn that in the midst of others we should become always more
and more a divine example of integral activity both intellectual
and spiritual, an opportunity which is offered to them to understand
and enter upon the path of divine life.
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