ladYi vkSj bPNk

dkeuk ;k bPNk vkSj ladyi esa D;k Hksn gS\

;s ,d gh phst ugha gSaA ,d mnkgj.k ysa] tc rqe ns[krs gks fd ,d dke djuk gS vkSj mls djuk vPNk g rc lk/kkj.kr;k rqEgkjh cqf) fu'p; djrh vkSj fu.kZ; nsrh gS vkSj mlds ckn rqEgkjk ladYi vkjEHk djrk gS vkSj dj.kh; deZ ds fy;s tks dqN vko';d gS og rqels djkrk gSA bl rjg ge dg ldrs gS fd ladYi fØ;k'kfDr gS tks rqEgkjs }kjk ;k mPprj 'kfDr ds }kjk tks dqN fuf'pr gqvk gS mlds fufer iz;qDr gksuh pkfg,A ;g ,d ,slh pht gS tks lqleatl vkSj lqlaxfBr gksrh gS ;g ,d fuf'pr ;kstuk ds vuqlkj dk;Z djrh gS vkSj vius vkidks iwjk o'k esa j[krh gSA bPNk ;k dkeuk] blds foifjr] ,d vkosx gS A ,sls yksx gksrs gSa tks dkeukvksa ks Hkjs gksrs gS ij muesa ladYi ugha gksrk] ,slk dgk tkrk gS fd mudh dkeuk,sa mUgs ladYi ugha gksrk] ,slk dgk tkrk gS fd mudh dkeuk,sa mUgs [k tkrh gSA ;fn rqeesa vius dkeukvksa dks iwjk djus dk ladYi Hkh u gks rks rqe dgha ugha igqprsA vf/kdka'k yksxsa esa tks FkksM+h lh ladYi'kfDr gksrh gS og fu%lansg mudh dkeukvksa dh lsok esa gh yx tkrh gSA LkadYi ,d 'kfDr gS tks lkspus le>us vkSj laxBu djus esa leFkZ gS vkSj ftls vius lkeus mifLFkr fdlh mn~ns'; ds fy;s dke esa yxk;k tk ldrk gSA
tc rqeus ladYi&'kfDr gS rc bldk vFkZ gksrk gS fd fdlh lqfuf'pr y{; ds fy;s yxkrj iz;kl djrs jgus dh {kerk rqeesa gSaA blds foifjr dkeuk ,d ,slh pht gS tks rhoz mRrstukiw.kZ vkSj {kfkd gksrh gS ;g cgqr de gh dksbZ LFkk;h pht gksrh gSA LFkk;h iz;kl esa tks ewy lRo lkj rRo vkSj laxBu gksrk gS og blesa ugha gksrkA tc dkeuk rqEgsa vius o'k esa dj ysrh gS rc og rqels dksbZ Hkh dke djk ldrh gS ij blds vkosx ds u'ks esa gh fdlh lqO;ofLFkr vkSj lqlaxfBr <ax ls ughaA

cPpksa esa cjkcj phtsa& esjk eryc gS LFkwy phtsa&& ekaxrs jgus dh vknr D;ksa gksrh gS\

fuf'pr :i ls dkj.k fd os dkeukvksa Hkjs gksrs gS laHkor% tc os xHkZ esa vkrs gS rc dkeuk ds Lianu muds jx&jx esa iSB tkrk gS vkSj pwafd muesa vius Åij dksbZ la;e ugha gksrk gS blfy;s os pV vius Hkoksa dks izdV dj nsrs gSA o;Ld yksx Hkh dkeukvksa ls Hkjs gksrs gSa] ij os bUgsa izdV djus esa cgqr vf/kd ytkrs gSaA os bu lc phtksa ds dkj.k yfTtr gksrs gS] os Mjrs gS fd dgha mudh f[kYyh u mM+krh tk;s vkSj blfy; os viuh dkeukvksa dks fNikrs gS A cPps vf/kd Hkksys Hkkys vkSj lh/ks lk/ks gksrs gS tc os dksbZ pht pkgrsa gS rc >V cksy nsrs gSA os ;g ugha lksprs gS fd vius eudh ckrs dg nsuk mfpr ;k cqf)ekuh ugha gSA os ml <ax ls fopkj fordZ ugha djrsA fu%lansg lHkh yksx& esjk eryc gS lkekU; dksfV ds yksx & fujarj dkeukvksa ls Hkjk gqvk thou;kiu djrs gS dsoy os vius dks izdV ugha djrs gSA dHkh dHkh rks Lo;a vius vki Hkh bls Lohdkj ugha djrsA ijUrq ;g dkeuk ]phtksa dh vko';drk ;g cks/k muesa cjkcj gh jgrk gS A vius lkeus rqe ,d lqUnj oLrq ns[krs gks vksSj rqjar mls vf/kdqr djus dh Hkkouk ds o'k esa gks tkrs gksA;g yM+diu gS] ;g gkL;kLin Hkh gSA fuU;kuos izfr'kr yksx ftu phtksa dks pkgrs gS mUgs os fcydqy ugha ikrs A vkSj ckdh ,d izfr'kr yksxksa esa ls fdrus yksx tc ,d ckj okLro esa viuh pht ik tkrs gS rc mlesa :fp j[krs gS \ ,d cPpk rks vkSj Hkh vf/kd oSlk gksrk gSA og tks dqN pkgrk gS og rqe mls ns nks vkSj ,d {k.k ckn gh mldh vksj og rkdsxk Hkh ughaA
bl vknr ls NqVdkjk ikus esa cPpksa dks dSls lgk;rk nh tk ldrh gS\
bldh dbZ i)fr;ka gSaA lcls igys ];g tkuus dh t:jr gS fd dgha ge cPps dks tks dqN og lksprk vkSj vuqHko djrk gS mls [kqys rkSj ij O;Dr djus ls jksd u nsaA yksx lk/kkj.kr;k vkSj fujarj ;gh djrs gS A os MkaVrs &/kedkrs gS] naM nsrs gS vkSj cPpk viuh bPNk,sa fNikus dh vknr xzg.k dj ysrk gSA bllsa cPpk lq/kjrk ugha A ;fn ge fuR; fujarj cPps ls dgrs gks] ** ugha] rqEgs ;g pht ugha frysxh^^ tks bl rjg rqe egt bl fopkj dks mlds vanj cSBk nsrs gks fd ** gka] tc eSa cPpk gw¡rc eq>s dksbZ pht ugha nh tkrh^^ tcrd eSa cM+k gwaxk rc eSa tks dqN pkgrk gw¡ mls ikÅ¡xk A^^ blfy, eSa dgrh gw› fd ;g dksbZ nok ugha gS] cPps dk ykyu ikyu djuk dksbZ vklku dke ugha gSA
ijUrq ,d nwljk rjhdk gS ftldh ppkZ eSa dj pqdh gw¡ og gS tks dqN og pkgs mls ns nsukA ijUrq dfBukbZ ;g gS fd nwljs gh {k.k og dksbZ nwljh pht ekaxsxk vkSj bl rjg og ekaxrk gh jgsxk vkSj mldh ekax dk dksbZ var u gksxkA D;ksafd ;g ,d fu;e gS] dkeuk dks fu;e gS fd og dHkh r`Ir ugha gksrh A vr,o rqe viuh i)fr cny ldrs gks vkSj cPps ls & eku yks fd og dkQh le>nkj gS dg ldrs gks ns[kks rks mUgs ;g pht ikus dh fdruh bPNk Fkh vkSj vc tc fd dksbZ nwljh gh pht ekaxrs gksA mlds lkFk gh rqe ;g mRrj nsxkA **th gka esjh bPONkvksa ls eq>s eqDr djus dk lcls vPNk rjhdk ;gh gS fd tks dqN eSa ekaxw mls ns fn;k tk;^^
cgqr ls yksx bls vfUre fopkj dks vius thouHkj idMs+ j[krs gSA tc muls mudh dkeukvksa dks thrus ds fy;s dgk tkrk gS rc os tokc nsrs gS ** mUgs thrus dk lcls mRre mik; gS mUgs r`Ir djukA^^ ijarq vko';drk ;g ugha gS fd egt dkeuk ds fo"k; dks gh cny fn;k tk; cfYd vko';drk gS fd ml dks fl) djus djus fd i;kZIr ek=k esa Kku vkSj cqf)&fopkj rFkk vuqHko dh vko';drk gSA bl pht dh vk'k rqe NksVs cPpksa ls ugha dj ldrsA lcls igys rks muesa fopkj fordZ djus dh gh ugh gksrh vkSj rqe bl ckrdks le>k gh ugha ldrs] os rqEgkjs rdksZ dks le>sx gh ughsA ;gh dkj.k gS fd ekrk&firkvksa dks lkekU;r;k vkSj dksbZ jkLrk ugha fn[kkbZ nsrk gS vkSj os ;g dgdj mUgs jksd nsrs gSa **pqi jgks[ rqe cgqr ijs'kku djrs gks^^ blh rjhds ls os bl dfBukbZ ls cprs gSaA
ij ;g dksbZ lek/ku ugha gS A dke FkksM+k dfBu gS ];g vVwV iz;kl vkSj vpy vVy /kS;Z ekax djrk gSA dqB yksx] cgqr cM+h la[;k esa ] ,sls gksrs gS tks] ;|fi vc cPps ugha gksrs] fQj Hkh lkjs thou oSls gh cus jgrs gS os Hkh cqf) rdZ dh ckr ugha le>rs gSA ;fn rqe muls dgka fd mudh ckr ;qfDrlaxr ugha gS vkSj fujarj mudh dkeukvksa dks larq"V djuk laHko ugha gS rks os cl ;g le>rs gS fd ;s yksx fcydqy rdyhQ nsus okys gS] ;s ehBs LoHkko ds ugha gS A ;s ehBs LoHkko ds ugha gS^^ cl] bruk ghA
cPPks ds lacU/k esa gesa ;g dksf'k'k djuh pkfg, fd mudh dkeukvksa dh fn'kk dks gh cny fn;k tk;]mUgs vf/kd vPNh phtksa dh vf/kd vPNh D;ksafd vf/kd lPph vkSj feyus esa Hkh vf/kd dfBu phtksa dh dkeuk djus nh tk;A mnkg.kkFkZ tc rqe fdlh cPps dks dkeukvksa ls iw.kZ ns[kksa rc mlds vanj ,d vkSj Hkh Å¡psizdkj dh dkeuk Mky nks ] vFkkZr dsoy {kf.kd rqf"V nsus okyh 'kq) HkkSfrd oLrqvksa dh bPNk ds cnys ge muesa tkuusa dh] lhpkusa dh egku gksus vkfn vkfn dh dkeuk txk ldrs gSA ;g fu'p; gh ,d cM+k vPNk vkjaHk gksxkA pwafd bu phtksa dks izkIr djuk vf/kd dfBu gS blfy;s blls mudh ladYi 'kfDr fodflr gksxh vkSj 'kfDr'kkyh cusaxhA ;fn dfBukbZ LFkwy <ax dh Hkh gks ]tSls ;fn rqe fdlh cPps dks ,d xqfM+;k cukusa dsks nks] dksbZ phuh igsyh lqy>kus dks nks ;'k /kS;Z dh vko';drk j[kusokyk dksbZ [ksy nks rks mlesa cPpk tks iz;kl djsxk mlls mldh ,dkxzrk] v/;olk; dh 'kfDr rFkk fopkjksa dh ,d izdkj Li"Vrk vkfn ds fodflr gksus esa lgk;rk igq¡psxhA bl izdkj rqe cPps dh laadYi 'kfDr dks xyr phtksa dh [kkst ls gVkdj mfpr phtksa dh [kkst esa yxkk ldrs gksA ;g lp gS fd ,slk djus ds fy;s ;g vko';d gksrk gS fd rqe fujarj cPps ds lkFk lkFk jgrs gq,bl ckr ij /;ku j[kks vkSj iz;kl djksa ] ij ;gh lcls vf/kd fuf'pr iFk izrhr gksrk gSA ;g vklku ugha gS ij ;g vR;ar QyksRiknd gSA
uk dgus ls dke ugha pyrk ] ij gka dgus ls Hkh ugha pyrkA eSa dqN yksxksa dks tkurh gw¡ ftugksus vius cPkksa dks viuh ethZ ds vuqlkj dke djus fn;k A ,d cPpk ,slk Fkk tks dksbZ Hkh pht vius gkFk esa vk tkus ij mls [kkus dh dksf'k'k djrk FkkA LoHkkor% ghog chekj iM+k vkSj var esa rax vk x;k vkjS bl rjg mldh vknr gh NwV xbZ A fQj Hkh bl i)fr esa [krjk gSA mnkgj.kkFkZ ,d fnu ,d cPps ds gkFk eas fn;klykbZ dk ckDl vk x;k vkSj pwafd mls jksdk ugha x;k blfy;s mlls [ksyrs l;e og og ty x;k] ;|fi mls ckn mlus fQj dHkh fn;klykbZ ds gkFk ugha yxk;kA ;g i)fr dHkh dHkh ?kkrd Hkh fl) gks ldrh gSA D;ksafd dqN cPps cMs+ nq%lkgfld gksrs gS& vf/kda'k cPps ,sls gh gksrs gS vkSj tc dksbZ dkeuk muij gkoh gks tkrh gS rc lalkj dhs dksbZ pht mUgs ugha jksd ldrhA dqN rks nhokjksa dhs /kkj ij ;k ?kj ds eqaMsj ij ?kweus ds fy;s ykykf;r gksrs gS ]dqN dks ikuh ns[krs gh lh/ks mlesa dwn iM+us dh bPNk gksrh gSdqN rks ,sls Hkh gksrss gS tks lM+dij eksVjxkM+h dks tkrs ns[k mlh le; lM+d ikj djus dk [krjk mBkuk ilan djrs gS A vxj ,sls cPpksa dks muds gh euekus <ax ls pyus fn;k tk; tks ;g ijh{k.k dHkh dHkh ?kkrd fl) gks ldrk gSA dqN yksx vius cPpksa dks bl izdkj dh Lora=krk iznku djrs gS vkSj [krjk mBkrs gSaA D;ksafd os dgrs gS fd ck/kk nsuk dksbZ mik; ugha gSA ftu cPpksa dks dksbZ pht vLohdkj dj nh tkrh gS os lk/kkj.kr;k ;g fo'okl ugha djrs fd vLohd`r pht cqjh gS cfYd os le>rs gS fd fdlh pht dks trc dksbZ budkj djuk pkgrk gS rc og mls cl cqjk dg nsrk gS A vr,o ;g rdZ fd;k tkrk gS fd D;k LorU=krk ns nsuk gh vf/kd vPNk ugha gS \ mudk fl)kUr gS fd pkgs tks Hkh D;ksa u gks tk;s O;fDrxr Lora=krk dk vknj djuk gh pkfg,A tks tho vHkh

gky esa lalkj esa vk;s gSa muds lkeus iqjkus vuqHkoksa dks ugha j[kuk pkfg,] mUgs Hkwrdky ds lHkh cks>ksa ls eqDr gksdj vius futh iz;ksx djus pkfg;sA ,d ckj rks tc eSaus ;g le>k;k fd cPps dks laHkkO;nq?kZVuk ds fo"k; esa lko/kku dj nsuk pkfg;s rc eq>s ;g mRrj fn;k x;k fd blls vkidk dksbZ ljksdkj ugha gS A vkSj tc eSaus ckjckj ;g dgk fd cPpk ekjk tk ldrk gS rc mRrj fn;k x;k fd ** mlls D;k\^^ izR;sd O;fDr vius HkforO;rrk dk vuqlj.k djsxk gh A nwljksa ds ekeysa esa gLr{ksi djuk u rks fdlh dk dke gS vkSj fdlh ds fy, mfpr gSA vxj dksbZ ew[kZrkiw.kZ dk;Z yxkrkj djrk jgs rks og Lo;a mldk Qy Hkksxsxk vkSj vf/kd laHko gS fd og Lo;a vius vki gh mUgs djuk can dj nsxk tks nwljksa }kjk can djus ds fy, ck/; gksu dh vis{kk lkSxquk vf/kd vPNk gS ijarq LoHkkor% gh ,sls mnkgj.k gksrs gS ftuesa cPpk can rks vo'; djrk gSij ml <ax ls ugha ftl <ax ls vk'kk dh tkrh gS ;k bPNk dh tkrh gSA
vkSj ;fn re md fl)kar cuk yks vkSj mldk vuqlj.k djus dh dksf'k'k djks rc ekeyk dfBu vkSj tfVy cu tkrk gSA pl iwNk tk; tks izR;sd izlax vyx&vyx gksrk gS vkSj izR;sd izlax esa leqfpr <ax ls O;ogkj djus dh ;ksX;rk izkIr djus ds fy;s lkjs thou mlh esa yxs jgus dh vko';drk gSA